Pre-drinks can be a relaxed way to get friends together before a night out, but they are not automatically a money-saver. If you buy drinks at home and then spend the same amount in town, the evening has simply become more expensive. Here are the pros and cons to weigh up before hosting.
This guide is for adults aged 18 and over. Nobody needs to drink alcohol to join in.
Pro: you can plan the cost
Buying drinks for a small gathering can cost less than ordering every drink at a venue, but compare actual prices rather than assuming. Set a total night-out budget covering anything you buy beforehand, entry and getting home.
Agree whether everyone brings their own drinks or shares a shopping cost. Include alcohol-free choices and do not expect the host to pay for everybody. Compare this with meeting at the venue without pre-drinks: sometimes the simpler plan suits your wallet better.
Pro: there is time to catch up
A small group at home can be easier for conversation than a crowded bar. Put some music on at a considerate volume, agree a leaving time and leave room for anyone who arrives later. Get ready without rushing, but do not keep topping up simply because you are waiting for somebody.
For more ways to socialise around uni, see our university experience guide.
Pro: games can break the ice
A quick game can help a mixed group get talking. Explain the rules first and make passing a turn normal. Points or soft drinks work too; drinking penalties should never be the price of belonging.
Keep questions light rather than pressuring people into personal disclosures. The aim is a good evening together, not getting someone drunk before leaving the house.
Con: drinks can add up quickly
Free-pouring at home makes it easy to lose track. According to the NHS alcohol-units guide, units equal the drink’s volume in millilitres multiplied by its ABV percentage, divided by 1,000. A 750ml bottle of wine at 13.5% ABV contains about 10 units: a bottle is not a single serving.
The NHS advises adults who drink regularly not to exceed 14 units a week, spreading drinking over three or more days if drinking that much. That is not a target or an allowance for one evening. Take drink-free days and do not treat cheaper alcohol as a reason to drink more.
Con: hosting brings work
Noise, spills and visitors affect your housemates too. Agree the plan with them, keep exits clear and tidy up afterwards. Do not turn a shared kitchen into an open invitation without asking.
Is it worth doing?
Choose pre-drinks if you enjoy the gathering itself and it fits your budget. Skip them if you feel pressured, tired or likely to overspend. Plan the journey home before leaving, keep money aside for it and never drive after drinking. Our money-saving guide has other ways to keep nights out within budget.
Last checked: 6 November 2026.